The GROW Coaching Model is a systematic approach to decision-making that helps determine where you want to go and how to get there. It maps the way you think about decisions to make decision-making systematic. Think of it as a framework to consider actions to take.
The model was developed in the 1980s by three collaborators: Alan Fine, Graham Alexander, and Sir John Whitmore. Over the last 30 years, it has become one of the world’s most recognized and influential coaching models. Today, it’s considered by coaches worldwide to be the gold-standard framework for structuring coaching conversations.
GROW is an acronym for the four components of any decision-making process: Goal, Reality, Options, and Way Forward.
All action stems from decisions. Using the GROW model for coaching, a coach helps a performer organize their thinking around these components and learn to make decisions in a logical, productive formula proven to lead to better actions and results.
TThe cornerstone of effective decision-making is setting clear goals. It provides focus, direction, and a visual representation of improved performance. Distractions often arise when we fail to focus on the goal or misunderstand it.
Reality refers to your perception of the factors in your environment that could impact your goal achievement. When faced with making a decision, take time to reflect on the problem, your previous attempts and their outcomes, and the obstacles you currently face.
At this stage, use your reality to generate solutions — or options — for achieving your desired goals. Favor quantity over quality here.
Your way forward is the specific action plan selected from all of the available options. It should be detailed and actionable, fostering a sense of ownership over the performance outcomes you seek.
Within the GROW model of coaching lies the Performance Wheel™, which keeps performers moving through the decision-making process. The wheel comprises the four key elements of performance: Knowledge, Faith, Fire, and Focus.
Focus is considered the lever of the Performance Wheel™ because it combats interference, which is anything that gets in the way of higher performance. We can’t affect the existence or magnitude of our focus, but we can affect what we choose to focus on. Knowledge, Faith, and Fire may change over time, but Focus is an immediate driver of our performance.
As Tim Gallwey, creator of the Inner Game Model, said, “There are many ways of allowing your thinking to get in the way of your performance and learning, but they all amount to conversations you are having with yourself within your own head.”
The GROW Coaching Model is constructed upon a deceptively simple insight: breakthrough performance is usually not about what you know. It’s about removing interference that allows you to focus and act on what you already know.
We can’t eliminate interference completely, but we can overcome it by choosing to focus on the things that progress us closer to our goal.
TThe Performance Wheel™ helps people think through decisions more efficiently so they can make better, faster decisions. And good decisions lead to effective actions which lead to productive results. This is called Decision Velocity® — the speed and accuracy of decisions that drive individual and organizational performance.
GROW enables you to help people solve problems, commit to action, and produce results — at home or at the office. Here’s an example of how a coach used the GROW model to help a friend make an important decision.
For the past decade, friends Greg and Joel have discussed going back to school to work toward MBA degrees. Greg took the plunge first and started a graduate program, with Joel often asking Greg how he liked it. Their conversations typically ended with Joel feeling like he needed to go to grad school too to achieve the goals he had set for himself.
For years, the conversations continued. Greg would encourage Joel to get his MBA, but his motivation would fizzle out and nothing would change.
Eventually, Greg decided to try a different approach. Using the GROW Coaching Model, he asked Joel some questions to help him get clear on what his next steps should be toward applying for his MBA. Here’s what they uncovered through their conversation:
The GROW Coaching Model got Joel to take action when Greg’s encouragement hadn’t been able to. After meeting with the school’s admissions department, Joel eventually received an acceptance letter to the MBA program.
Coaching using the GROW model offers a powerful framework for facilitating growth and development in individuals.
By guiding the coaching process through Goal setting, exploring the current Reality, generating Options, and establishing a clear Way Forward, coaches can empower performers to unlock their potential and achieve their desired outcomes.
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